Baby,Know Your Worth

"Your value dosen't decrease based on someone inablity to see your worth."

Am I Enough?

Some of us often ask ourselves this question a lot. Based on the life we have been given, the challenges we have faced, the treatment we have endured; we become convinced that we are not capable of being appreciated, loved and respected. As a result, we no longer question if we are worthy; we just conclude that we are not. Well I'm here to tell you that is a lie. Now I'm not going to sit here and tell you finding your value is easy, because sometimes that isn't the case. Let's be honest here, there are many factors that can damage your self worth.

Perhaps you feel like you are too different, or people are constantly comparing you to others to the point you feel like you are forever living in someone else's shadow. Or it could be that even though you give your best ; it simply isn't enough, and people just take you for granted. Sadly, this may be true for you, it could be that certain persons in your life bluntly tell you; you are not enough.

What Lies Within

I cannot emphasis how important it is to cherish the being that is yourself, and no I'm not talking about arrogance or pride. So, don't leave this blog and be like L.A Noire told be I'm the bomb, and I don't need nobody, cause that is not the right attitude. It is important to remain humble. However, you don't want to think so little of yourself that you develop low self-esteem, nor do you want to have such a big ego that you become a narcissist. Let me tell you why, you attract what you believe you are worth. You think you deserve less that is what you will get. You think you deserve better that is what you will posess, cause determining your valve gives you self respect, and that is not a bad thing.

Listen here sweetheart, getting to know the different between what you are getting, and what you deserve depends on you. No one can do it for you period! The things that are in your life is what you accept, sometimes in order to reach a level of self respect; you gonna have to eliminate certain factors out of your life. This is not always the case, but don't feel bad if this is a necessary step you have to take. It's called growth that doesn't mean you develop hatred rather you learn to forgive even if you don't get an apology, and forget in order to move on with your life. Sometimes you can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to you. If someone treats you like an option, remove yourself from the equation. Don't dedicate the book of your life to someone who is only supposed to be a scribble in the margins.

If you are searching for change, take a look in the mirror. No you're not perfect, but who is?! We all have imperfections we are humans. Accept the things you cannot change, but have courage to change the things you can. Strive each day to become a better version of yourself, and don't compare your victories with others, because you are your own indivdiual. Eventually, when you come to love yourself, and gain self worth, you will find people who will truly treasure, respect, and love the person you are.

Nothing but love,

L.A. Noire

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